23 December 2012

7 cara or step2 Memujuk Rakan Emo

assalamu'alaykum peole as the opening of the topic today i nk share ilmu berkenaan tajuk di atas!
*ape die ko nk share ni. xbest lngsg*,*aku bole pujuk sendiri la member aku. kacang je..*
ok ok and ok. i know la u ols ada cara tersendiri kn..tp ini yg lebih islamik sikit..
please show a good behave as a muslim people. okay? here the tips :

1. Mengambil Wudhu'
Ajak rakan yg sdg emosi sama-sama mengambil wudhu'. Tell him/her about that wudhu' boleh menyejukkan serta menenangkan hati yg tidak stabil tp dgn syarat, Ikhlas :)

2. Menulis Sesuatu yang Positif
Berikn pd rakan kita beberapa helai kerta dan pensil or pen then tell him/her supaya tulis apa yg dicita-citakan ataupun kesukaan. Meanwhile, u tell him/her also yg tulis perkara positif boleh meransang minda ke arah yg baik. :)

3. Memujinya Dengan Seadanya
duduk depan dia while watching muka dia kejap. then, tell him/her yg dia bijak dan cantik/hemsem. Puji sambil ajak dia rasa bersyukur kpd Allah S.W.T. :)

4.Tunjukkan Kasih Sayang
ask them if they want to do something, mcm nak minum ke? nk makan? nk membaca? and so on as long as you all tidak melanggar syariat you can do anything :)

5.Berbual-bual Dan Berada Disampingnya
don't let your emotional friend alone or do something alone. you kena join dia dan sembang perkara yang boleh positifkan diri dia and don't let your friend tell the story what make him/her emotional. Bring a good story dalam perbualan. :)

6. Meminta Maaf
ringankan lah lidah you all utk minta maaf if you are the reason she/he becomes like that ok? either you're the one guilty nor not, still you have to go it first. everything can be done by apologies. in shaa Allah :)

7.Perlihatkan Kepadanya Betapa Indahnya Islam 
if rakan you all tu degil kan, find someone that she/he close to, like their siblings or bestfriend or lecturer/teacher or else so that rakan kita tu luahkan perasaan dia. but remember! yang kita ajak tu mestilah mempunyai latar belakang agama yg sgt baik. or maybe you can ask ustazah/ustaz meet them. it will just fine in shaa Allah :)




so at the end inilah dia solusi masalah rakan emo, guys igt ye ape2 hal bsr mcm mna mslh pun kita kena kembali pd Allah. because He the one that give us the test and He the one that solve the problem.
selamat beramal u ols!
wallahu'aklam, daaaa~ :)

*jgn biarkan those emo people be like this* ;)


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